Q: Guruji how do we know that our experiences are authentic? And how
do we know that we are progressing on the spiritual path?
Sri Sri: You know doubt always come on that is true. You never doubt
depression. You doubt love, whereas you never doubt anger! Therefore
if you are having a doubt on your experiences just know that they are
all authentic (Laughter!!).
And how to gaze whether your are progressing on the spiritual path or
not; see if you have become more compassionate. See if you feel more
relaxed and free now. Do you feel free or not? Just see within
yourself. See how much does the entire happening around you bother
you. Do they bother you like before or not? Does the external events
bother you still? Even if they bother you see how much time does it
stay for. See how fast you are catching up with your self! You should
not think that, oh! I should never get upset! See hoe fast you are
coming back to your self! A few minutes of distraction and then you
are back. Don’t Judge yourself. There is no need to judge yourself.
Can you become a student and an examiner at the same time? No.
Certainly not! You are learning now so leave the evaluation work to
some one else!! Let Him decide, let Him evaluate!! (Laughter)!!
Q: Guruji, I have been practicing in the Spiritual path for quite
sometime, but I still find that I am not able to become dispassionate.
To bring about dispassion in me what should I do?
Sri Sri: Don’t get caught up in words. These are just all words. I
tell you if you are centered dispassion comes to you automatically.
Just be centered. Do your seva (service), satsang (company of the
truth), and sadhna (spiritual practices) and you will see rest
everything is just falling in place for you.
Q: Guruji what is the difference the mind and the soul? And how is it
connected to each other?
Sri Sri: The mind is like the wave and the Soul is like the ocean. And
the connection between the two is that the mind cannot be without the
soul, but the soul can exist without the mind. So in meditation you
drop the mind, you become one with the totality that is the ocean.
Therefore there are both existing together, the mind as well as the
soul, like the wave as well as the ocean.
Q: Guruji, in my meditation often I get a feeling of doing some harm
to the Gods. My mind feels like doing something against them. How do I
get rid of such a feelings? What should I do?
Sri Sri:You know if it is so compulsive, so obsessive you do it. Just
go ahead and do it. But that way you are going to hurt yourself! Hurt
your hand! God is not in the statue or the idol in front of you, God
is in your heart. We invoke God and bring it to the statue for some
moments only and again we place it back in our hearts. Like the
Ganapati idol, we put it in the water. First we invoke the God in the
idol, play with that for some time and after all that tell him to come
back to us and reside back in our heart!!
But yes. If such a feeling persists, just observe the sensation. See
what is happening within you. You know these types of violent
tendencies also come because of the food you eat. All these are the
Rajashik (Restlessness) tendencies that come from food. Focus on you
diet. Be aware of what you eat. Stay away from Rajasik food for
sometime. Food does matter a lot. Listen to Narada Bhakti Sutra.
Rejoice in the self….Be contented.
Q: Guruji after having tried all means, certain worries keep coming to
me. I am not able to surrender those. What should I do?
Sri Sri: Why do you need to surrender? I tell you don’t surrender,
this surrender is an illusion. What do you want to surrender? Anyway
everything belongs to God. What is it that is yours and you want to
surrender!?? !? It is just a concept, I want to surrender this, I want
to surrender that. This is like try catching a cat in a dark room,
which is not there(Laughter! !) Just relax; God did not want us to
surrender. What to surrender? Don’t worry; just know that you are
nothing. The path of knowledge is easy for those who are where in the
head. If you think you are something wakeup and see, what are you
?!?!?! You are carbohydrate, amino acids, fats, every cell of your
body has been existing millions of years ago and is also existing now
and you call yourself Radha, Sita, Rama, tomorrow again this form will
go and new form will come where will you go.
Walk like being a big zero, but always be on the right side of the
number. (Laughter!!! !) I am nobody, I am nothing. These two
‘dharanas’ intensions, is an antidote to ignorance wakeup and see!!!
And the job is done!
Q: Guruji, they say that there are two kinds of people. The first, are
the kind of people who ask question out of ignorance. And the second
are the people who don’t ask question out of ignorance. What would be
my category?
Sri Sri:(Laughter!!) At least this you have realized!!! See how wise
you are!!! Only a wise can understand such things!! So you are
certainly not a fool. You are wise.
